In February, Barack Obama, 63, dismissed rumors about his troubled marriage, amid rumors of an affair with actress Jennifer Aniston, 55. On Valentine’s Day, Obama took to Instagram and wrote a heartfelt message Michelle, reaffirming that she is still the one after more than three decades of marriage.

Barack and Michelle Obama have been married since 1992, but his two presidential terms took their toll on the relationship, and Barack is still making it up.

Even the most iconic couples go through it — and Barack Obama is keeping it real about what life has been like with Michelle after the White House years. During a recent Q&A at Hamilton College, the former president opened up about the challenges he’s faced in his marriage since leaving office,